Here's a quote from page 47 of "90-Day Geisha" by Chelsea Haywood:

"I could feel him from ten feet away. Half-hidden in the shadows, he interrupted the airwaves around him. He was handsome, in the way of Japan's ancient war generals-powerful and distinguished- and many other things you couldn't possibly be all at once. Arrogant and charming. Smooth and razor-sharp. A groomed, polished, virile specimen, he was egomaniacle to the point of narcissism, yet he oozed an invisible nectar that made him irresistibly attractive. And that was just my first impression."

Sounds like she met Lord Sesshomaru in a hostess bar! I highly recommend this book, it is fascinating!