I don't honestly care about the toilet seat thing but, I'll agree that it really does depend on the time period and other factors.
"What you would do to a guy that made you very, very angry" is rather vague.
There is a huge difference between a pet-peeve like toilet seats and folding towels wrong or something major like lying about not being employed anymore or having an affair.
I don't mind helping but perhaps you could be more specific? How major is the offense? Is the guy in question a love interest or someone the girl is attracted to? Is the guy in question a relative or someone older? Is the girl in question someone who is hot-headed and easy to anger or typically more mild? Do either party hold some sort of authority over the other?
All of these things can affect how a woman responds to different social situations.
You don't have to say it here, if it becomes too specific, feel free to pm me and I will be happy to help if I can!