ok, folks, so that this incident doesn't happen again, let's get this out of the way: the only way to delete your account is to ask me, Miss K, and other admins. in the past, when people wanted to go, they'd send me an email wondering how to delete their accounts. almost always worded the same way too. so, earlier tonight somebody asks how to delete their account and I just assumed that's what they wanted.
it took a while but I found a way to undo most of the damage. once again I earn the dunce of the year award. so, please, only contact me about this if you really, really want to go, it's the only way to be safe